GAVIN SPEAKS
Ever catch yourself playing small to avoid judgment?
Or putting off that big move because "the timing's not right"?
Or saying "I'm not ready yet" when you totally are?
We all do it. And we've all got really good reasons for it too. At least, that's what we tell ourselves.
We put off that conversation because it feels uncomfortable.
We talk ourselves out of opportunities because "we're not quite ready."
We make excuses about timing when really we're just scared.
It's so easy to convince ourselves we're being smart, cautious, or practical. But most of the time, we're just avoiding the discomfort of growth.
I used to think I was just being realistic when I'd downplay my goals or hesitate to put myself out there. Turns out I was just afraid of what might happen if I actually succeeded.
What I've discovered after working with hundreds of clients is that this isn't just fear or procrastination... it's something much deeper.
It's your ego creating separation between you and abundance.
See, your ego... that identity you think is "you"... is literally designed to maintain separation. That's its job. It creates the experience of being a separate self in a world of other separate things.
And to maintain this separation, it builds elaborate stories about why you're not ready, why the timing isn't right, why you need more preparation, more credentials, more validation before you can have what you want.
The ego builds an entire identity around playing it safe, and then disguises it as wisdom or caution.
"I'm just being realistic."
"I need to be more prepared."
"I don't want to seem arrogant."
"What if people judge me?"
These aren't just random thoughts. They're sophisticated ego structures designed to maintain the illusion of separation between you and abundance.
Because here's the truth that your ego doesn't want you to realize: Your natural state IS abundance. You don't need to manifest it or attract it. You just need to dissolve the ego structures that make you believe you're separate from it.
This isn't just spiritual theory. This is practical as fuck when you actually get it.
I see this pattern constantly with people who come to me stuck at the same level despite years of hard work. They've done everything "right" according to conventional wisdom... yet their reality hasn't shifted.
The breakthrough comes when they realize: Real transformation doesn't come from adding more strategies or techniques... it comes from dissolving the ego structures that believe they're separate from abundance in the first place.
From non duality, there's no separate you that needs to attract or achieve anything. What you're trying to manifest isn't something "out there" that needs to be pulled toward you. It's what you already are beneath the ego's illusion of separation.
When you recognize these patterns for what they are, everything shifts. Your income expands. Your impact grows. Your relationships deepen. Not because you've learned some new strategy or manifestation technique, but because you've stopped getting in your own way.
Your inner authority already knows this. It knows that what you're seeking is what you already are.
So the next time you catch yourself playing small, making excuses, or putting things off, ask yourself: "Is this really caution, or is this my ego maintaining separation?"
The question isn't "How can I overcome my fears and doubts?"
The question is "What ego structures am I ready to dissolve so I can be what I already am?"
When you drop the ego's stories about why you're not ready or why the timing isn't right, life naturally expands. Not because you've become more prepared or because the timing is better, but because you've removed what was blocking what was always yours.
HEY, I’M GAVIN…
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