GAVIN SPEAKS
You've been taught that desire is your enemy.
That lust will lead you astray.
That your sexual energy needs to be suppressed, controlled, or at the very least... managed.
But what if everything you've been told about desire is actually keeping you weak, distracted, and powerless?
What if your lust isn't the problem... but how you're using it is?
In many traditional cultures, the concept of "attraction" as we understand it in the West doesn't even exist. Marriage and partnership were based on compatibility, family connections, and practical considerations... not the fleeting feeling of lust that we've elevated to a guiding principle.
This reveals something profound: much of what you consider "natural" about desire is actually culturally programmed.
Let's go deeper into what's REALLY happening with your desire...
On David Hawkins' Map of Consciousness, desire operates at a relatively low frequency. It vibrates in the realm of enslavement, disappointment, and craving.
When you're caught in the grip of lust, you're essentially a prisoner. You're not free. You're controlled by something outside yourself.
This is exactly where the matrix wants you.
Think about it...
How much of your mental energy is consumed by thoughts of attraction? How much of your time is spent pursuing, fantasizing about, or recovering from sexual experiences?
How often do you compromise your values, your time, or your energy because you're chasing the next dopamine hit of desire?
The powers that control this reality understand something crucial: a person controlled by their lust is easily manipulated.
This is why sex is used to sell everything from cars to toothpaste. This is why pornography is more accessible than clean drinking water in many parts of the world. This is why dating apps are designed to be addictive rather than effective.
It's all part of a system designed to keep you operating at a lower frequency... where you're more easily controlled.
But here's where it gets interesting...
Your sexual energy is actually one of the most powerful creative forces in the universe. It's literally the energy of creation itself.
The problem isn't the energy. It's how you're using it.
When you're constantly leaking this energy through endless pursuit, fantasy, and release, you're squandering your power. You're diffusing the very force that could make you unstoppable.
From a non-dual perspective, this makes perfect sense. There is only ONE consciousness, ONE energy, ONE being. This singular consciousness is expressing itself as everything and everyone... including the energy you experience as desire.
This energy isn't separate from you. It IS you. It's the divine creative force expressing itself through your unique form.
When you understand this truth, you realize that your attraction isn't really about the other person at all. It's about an aspect of yourself that you're projecting outward and then chasing.
What you're really attracted to is a reflection of your own consciousness.
This is why your patterns of attraction are so revealing. They show you where you're still operating from conditioning rather than freedom.
If you find yourself consistently attracted to people who are unavailable, that's not a coincidence. If you repeatedly desire relationships that bring chaos or drama, that's not bad luck.
These patterns reveal where you're still caught in the matrix of conditioning... where you're still operating from trauma rather than truth.
So how do you break free from this programming and transform your lust into unstoppable power?
It starts with recognizing that your sexual energy doesn't need to be suppressed OR indulged. It needs to be transmuted.
Transmutation means changing the form of something without changing its essence. It means taking the raw energy of desire and channeling it into a higher expression.
This is what the great achievers throughout history have done, often unconsciously.
Mike Tyson famously abstained from sex for years during the height of his boxing career. He understood intuitively that releasing his sexual energy would diminish his power in the ring.
Nikola Tesla remained celibate throughout his life, channeling his creative energy into inventions that changed the world.
Many artists, entrepreneurs, and visionaries practice some form of sexual energy transmutation, whether they call it that or not.
They understand that this energy, when contained and redirected, becomes an unstoppable force for creation and achievement.
This isn't about never having sex or denying your natural desires. It's about becoming conscious of this energy and intentional about how you use it.
When you're unconscious, your lust uses you. When you're conscious, you use your lust.
The practical process of transmutation involves several steps:
First, become aware of where your sexual energy is leaking. Notice the time you spend thinking about, pursuing, or recovering from sexual experiences. Notice how social media, entertainment, and advertising are designed to trigger and disperse this energy.
Second, create containers for this energy. Physical practices like intense exercise, breathwork, or martial arts can help transmute sexual energy into physical power. Creative practices like art, music, or writing can transform it into expression. Spiritual practices like meditation can elevate it to higher consciousness.
Third, recognize the deeper truth behind your desires. When you feel intense attraction, ask yourself: What quality am I really seeking? What aspect of myself am I projecting onto this person or experience? What would happen if I embodied this quality directly rather than chasing it externally?
Fourth, understand that true power comes from wholeness, not acquisition. The matrix wants you to believe that satisfaction comes from getting the object of your desire. The truth is that satisfaction comes from recognizing that what you're seeking is already within you.
From the perspective of non-duality, there is nothing outside of you to obtain. There is only consciousness experiencing itself in infinite forms. Your desire is consciousness desiring itself.
When you realize this, desire transforms from a force that controls you into a force that you control.
This is how you become unstoppable.
Not by suppressing your lust. Not by indulging it blindly. But by recognizing it as the divine creative energy that it is and channeling it consciously toward your highest expression.
The same energy that can make you a slave to your desires can make you a master of your destiny.
The choice is yours.
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