JEALOUSY Is How ENERGY Vampires FEED Off You

You've felt it before.

 

That uncomfortable sensation when someone's eyes linger on you a little too long... when their gaze feels less like curiosity and more like consumption.

 

There's something happening in these moments that goes beyond the physical... something most people miss entirely.

 

What if I told you that many instances of staring aren't random at all?

 

What if these moments are actually energetic transactions happening right in front of you?

 

In many spiritual traditions, the eyes are considered windows to the soul for a reason. They're portals through which energy flows both ways.

 

When someone stares at you with intensity, especially with negative emotions like jealousy or resentment, they're often unconsciously attempting to feed off your energy.

 

This isn't some woo-woo concept. It's an energetic reality that most people feel intuitively but have been conditioned to ignore.

 

Think about it...

 

Have you ever walked into a room and immediately felt drained after interacting with certain people?

 

Have you noticed how some individuals seem to become more animated and "alive" around you while you feel increasingly depleted?

 

Have you experienced the sensation of someone's eyes on you, only to turn and catch them quickly looking away with an expression that feels... hungry?

 

These are all signs of energy vampirism. And it's happening far more often than you realize.

 

From a non-dual perspective, this phenomenon takes on an even deeper meaning. There is only ONE consciousness expressing itself through infinite forms. This means that on the absolute level, there is no "other" who can take your energy.

 

But on the relative level of our human experience, the ego creates separation. And within this illusion of separation, some egos have learned to compensate for their own energetic deficiencies by drawing from others.

 

The most common triggers for this energy feeding are:

 

1. Your light is threatening their darkness

 

When you're aligned with your true nature as consciousness, you naturally radiate a certain frequency. This light can be deeply triggering for those who are identified with their ego and living in fear, lack, and separation.

 

Your very presence becomes a mirror reflecting back to them everything they're not allowing themselves to be. Their staring is often an unconscious attempt to understand, diminish, or absorb what you have that they perceive themselves to lack.

 

2. Jealousy creates energetic hooks

 

Jealousy is one of the most powerful forms of energy vampirism. When someone covets what you have, who you are, or how you live, they create an energetic hook that attempts to pull some of your essence toward them.

 

You might feel this as a heaviness, a sudden drop in your mood, or an inexplicable desire to make yourself smaller around certain people.

 

3. Your boundaries are being energetically tested

 

Some people unconsciously scan for energetic weaknesses in others. Their staring is a form of testing where your boundaries are vulnerable.

 

If they sense openings in your energetic field, they'll often escalate to more direct forms of energy feeding through drama, conflict, or emotional manipulation.

 

So what's really happening in these moments?

 

When someone stares at you with these intentions, they're attempting to create an energetic cord between you and them. This cord becomes a channel through which your vital energy can be drained and consumed.

 

This is why you might feel suddenly tired, confused, or emotionally off-balance after being around certain people. You're literally being depleted at an energetic level.

 

But here's where most spiritual teachings get it wrong...

 

The solution isn't to fight against these energy vampires. It's not about shielding, protecting, or battling against them.

 

From the highest perspective, these encounters are actually opportunities for awakening.

 

When you understand non-duality, you recognize that even these seemingly negative interactions are consciousness interacting with itself. The energy vampire is not separate from you. They are another expression of the same consciousness that you are.

 

Their behavior is simply consciousness playing a particular role in the cosmic drama. And that role is offering you a profound opportunity to awaken more deeply to your true nature.

 

So how would God respond to an energy vampire?

 

Not with fear. Not with anger. Not with protection.

 

But with compassion, presence, and unwavering rootedness in truth.

 

God would recognize that the person attempting to feed off others is operating from a deep sense of lack and separation. Their behavior is a distorted attempt to feel whole, to feel enough, to feel connected.

 

The irony is that what they're seeking through energy vampirism is already within them. They already are the infinite consciousness they're trying to obtain from others. They've simply forgotten this truth and are seeking it outside themselves.

 

When you understand this, your response transforms from reactivity to compassion.

 

This doesn't mean allowing yourself to be depleted. It means recognizing what's happening and responding from a place of wholeness rather than fear.

 

Here's how to handle these situations from the highest perspective:

 

1. Recognize what's happening

 

The first step is awareness. When you feel someone staring or sense your energy being drained, simply notice it without judgment. "Ah, this is energy vampirism happening."

 

2. Remember who you truly are

 

Immediately bring awareness back to your true nature as infinite consciousness. You are not a limited supply of energy that can be depleted. You are the source of all energy.

 

From this recognition, the idea of someone "taking" your energy becomes laughable. How can anyone take what is infinite?

 

3. Feel compassion for their forgetting

 

See the truth of the person attempting to feed off you. They've forgotten who they are. They believe themselves to be separate and lacking. This forgetting is the root of their behavior.

 

Feel genuine compassion for this forgetting, just as you would feel compassion for someone who is lost and confused.

 

4. Remain rooted in presence

 

Instead of contracting, withdrawing, or fighting against their energy, simply remain fully present. Don't engage with the drama, but don't run from it either.

 

This presence is your greatest power. It naturally stops the energy feeding because it shifts the entire dynamic from separation to wholeness.

 

5. Allow the interaction to awaken you more deeply

 

Use the encounter as an opportunity to recognize any remaining places where you still believe in separation. Do you feel afraid of being depleted? Do you feel angry at being targeted? Do you feel superior to the "vampire"?

 

All of these reactions reveal where you're still identified with being a separate self rather than infinite consciousness.

 

When you respond in this way, something miraculous happens. Not only do you remain energetically sovereign, but you actually offer the other person a glimpse of what they're really seeking.

 

Your unwavering presence becomes an invitation for them to remember their own true nature. You become a mirror reflecting back to them not their lack, but their inherent wholeness.

 

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